Tuesday, September 13, 2011

Blog Challenge Day 13: Religion

 
Today on the blog challenge we're talking religion. Actually, the prompt was "your favorite bible verse or quote", but I'm amending it a little.

I went through a period in high school where I was really into church and bible study, but religion has fallen by the wayside for me in the last decade. I have always believed in God (or some higher power), but I would consider myself more spiritual than religious.

After Will was born, I felt a pull to join a church community again, so Ben and I became members at a local First Congregational Church. We love our church community. It's very laid back, warm and welcoming. There's no judgement if you make it every Sunday or only on holidays (we're somewhere in the middle). And the pastors (a husband and wife team) are awesome. At our congregation, there is a big emphasis on tolerance and kindness, two values that I hope to pass on to Will.

I find scripture interesting, but the literal interpretation of religion is not why I'm there. For me, church is meditative. I use church as a means to reflect, find peace and prepare for the week ahead. I always leave feeling centered and ready to face whatever challenges await.

I grew up in a church community and I really want that for Will. I want a group of people (outside of our friends and family) that care about him and want him to succeed. That's what I got from church as a child. As an adult, I've struggled to find my relationship with God, but I'm working on it. I'm thankful we have a church home that can help me explore my faith without pressure or judgement.

Monday, September 12, 2011

Blog Challenge Day 12: Goals for the Next Year

 
I took a break from the blog challenge yesterday to write sweet baby Will's 13 month letter. But I'm back today talking about my goals for the next year.

The biggest goal I have right now is to finish my master's degree. I'm currently on track to graduate in December 2012, which is so exciting. I'm only about half way done, but the end is in sight!

Other goals I have for myself...
  • Join the sustainability committee in our new town. They have really ambitious goals for promoting more sustainable living in our community. I'd love to be a part of their efforts. Plus, I love local government. I used to watch city council meetings on cable access for fun (I'm a nerd, I know).
  • Run a half marathon. I was training for a half marathon this summer, but between graduate school and chasing after Will, I wasn't able to get in the training time needed. It's still a goal of mine, but it might have to wait until I have a little less on my plate.
  • Keep a cleaner house. Don't get me wrong, it's not like our place is an episode of "Hoarders" or anything, but I could stand to keep things a little cleaner (especially with a toddler running around). My goal is to keep up with the clutter and do more frequent maintenance cleaning (vacuuming, washing floors, dusting, etc). I have some incentive since my MIL will be at our house once a week now taking care of Will. She would never judge me for keeping things a little unkept, but I still want the house looking good when she's here.  :)

Sunday, September 11, 2011

13 Months Old


Dear Will,

It was a big month for you. HUGE even. And for once, I know just where to begin...

After being a late roller, late sitter, late crawler and late stander, you shocked us all by taking your first steps just a few weeks after your first birthday. From those first few tentative steps you gained confidence quickly, and you are now practically running everywhere. You have one speed: fast. Which means you have quite a few bumps and bruises to show for your newfound mobility.

You still crawl 40-50 percent of the time, but you crawl with authority now. You crawl super fast, smacking your hands and knees into the floor, letting out a loud "Tarzan" yell as you go. You'll be toddling around and then all of sudden I'll hear a bunch of banging and "ahh-ahh-ahh-ahh-ahh" echoing through the house.

You started pointing to objects this month, but it's still more of a whole hand reach than a point. You remain obsessed with airplanes, trucks and anything with wheels. You "oooh" and "ahhh" whenever you see something you like, reaching your hand to the object of your affection and looking back at me like "Mama, did you see that?!?"

We ended formula in the past month, which means you are now exclusively on organic whole milk. We also tried ditching bottles at the same time, but you just weren't having it. We try and give you a sippy cup at every meal, but you almost always insist on a bottle instead.

You still don't have any real words, but you babble and make sounds at us all the time. If I ask what the cow says, you say "ma". And although practically everything is "ba" these days, sometimes I'm convinced you're actually saying "ball", "bath" or "book". You also mimic words and sounds, repeating the ones you especially like. We love to get you to say "hush" over and over. It sounds so cute!

We continue to read a million books a day and work on baby sign language. Your favorite books this month are "Farm Peekaboo", "Count" and "Peek-A-Who?". Though you aren't using any signs yet, you do know what many of them mean, including milk, book, more and all done.

You continue to be a fairly picky eater, though you're finally eating more in each sitting. Your tastes change daily (heck, even hourly), so I never know what you're going to want from one meal to the next. You continue to love cheese, bread and yogurt. We monopolize on this by mixing pureed vegetables in with your yogurt so at least you're getting something green every day. Your favorite fruits this month were strawberries, blueberries and grapes. You're still not crazy about meats, though I've found if they have a sauce or seasoning on them, you're more likely to have a few bites. My little foodie baby doesn't care for anything bland!

You're now showing the early signs of tantrums. When something doesn't go your way, you flop yourself on the floor and start to cry, or (our favorite) you go limp in our arms so it's nearly impossible to hold onto you. Luckily these tantrums are still short lived when your attention is diverted to a favorite toy or something interesting outside, but we can see the emotional turmoil of toddlerhood on the horizon.

We started swimming lessons, which was an epic failure at first, but is getting better. You went through a period where you hated baths a few weeks ago, but swimming seems to have fixed that. You love to be in the tub now, playing with your toys and kicking your feet. Before you get in the tub, Daddy does a "1-2-3" countdown with you, during which you bounce up and down because you're so excited.

You started giving hugs on command this month, which is just too sweet for words. I'll ask, "Can Mama have a hug?" and you'll reach your arms around my neck and put your head on my shoulder. Swoon. We're working on giving kisses now too, but they usually end up being open-mouth slobbers then anything else. Regardless, I love it.

You have this hysterical fake-sounding laugh that you use when you get excited or want to get our attention. It's literally a breathy, over-emphasized "ha ha!" I think you use it often just to ham it up. It's so fun to watch your little personality shine through.

Another month of pure joy watching you grow. You are such a beautiful, curious, sweet little boy. You are our whole world. Daddy and I love you so much.

Love,

Mama

Saturday, September 10, 2011

Blog Challenge Day 10: My Husband


My Ben. He's such a good man. Hardworking, kind, handsome and funny. And arguably the world's best father.

We met our freshman year in college at the University of Wisconsin - Madison. We lived in the same dorm, though he was a floor above me. We were fast friends and had a serious flirtation over the next few years, until we finally gave in and started dating in 2003.

College graduation (2005)
We moved in together after we graduated from college, and Ben proposed to me on Christmas Eve 2005. Our wedding was 11 months later on December 2, 2006.

Our Wedding Day (2006)
In the years since we've had two houses, one beautiful son, one crazy Great Dane, some gnarly fights and too many good times to list. I can honestly say that Ben is my best friend. Our relationship isn't always easy, but I know, even in the hard times, that he always has my back. We love each other unconditionally, which goes a long way when you're trudging through the tough stuff.

Vacation in Door County, Wisconsin (2008)
Christmas (2009)
Will's birth day (2010)
What I've learned in the last five years of marriage is this: be kind (no low blows) and make every effort to grow together. Support each other's dreams. Hold on to what made you fall in love the first place. And bank plenty of good memories to get you through the tough stuff.

I love you, my darling. Thank you for being wonderful you.

xoxox


Friday, September 9, 2011

Blog Challenge Day 9: Favorite TV Shows

 

Today we're talking favorite TV shows on the September blog challenge. Here's what's on my must-watch list...

1) Sons of Anarchy

Sons of Anarchy
Best show ever. No joke.

It's about a motorcycle club in California. The characters are rough and tough like you'd expect, but the show also plays up more unexpected themes like family, love and loyalty. So good!

We don't have cable anymore, so we started watching SOA on Netflix earlier this year. We were hooked instantly. They only have Seasons 1 and 2 right now, so we can't wait to get Season 3. If you have cable, Season 4 is airing right now on FX.

2) Grey's Anatomy


Grey's Anatomy
I've been a Grey's fan since Season 1. The early episodes are just so awesome. I've been a little underwhelmed in recent seasons, but I still love the characters and the premise, so I continue to watch.

3) Modern Family


Modern Family
Well acted. Hysterically written. Great show. Enough said.

4) The Office


The Office
The Office is a favorite in our house. In fact, when Will was a newborn, we pretty much played episodes of The Office continuously on Netflix. I thought this last season was pretty good (I loved the episode where Michael proposed to Holly), but I'm unsure about the show without Steve Carell. The other characters are strong, so I'm hoping it works. But Michael Scott is such an integral character, it's hard to imagine the show without him.

5) Glee


Glee
Yes, I'm a "Gleek". But what's not to like about Glee? It's attractive people singing a bunch of popular songs. It's like going to see good cover band every week. And I love how they cover relevant social issues on the show. I think they've done a particularly good job with bullying and LGBTQ youth.

Thursday, September 8, 2011

Blog Challenge Day 8: A Picture of Your Friends


I'm fortunate to have many wonderful friends from different stages of my life (college, our pre-baby party days, being a stay-at-home mom), but I'll post a photo of these girls since we were just together a few weeks ago...

High school buddies (2011)

These are my dear girlfriends from high school. We get together every year for a weekend sleepover. We've been doing it since 2002, and it's always one of the highlights on my summer. There's something really awesome about spending time with people who have known you since you were a gawky, brace-faced teenager.

Our friendship just keeps getting deeper as we get older. And now we get to celebrate each other's exciting life events together (note Alyssa's cute pregnant belly above).

We all live relatively close (two in Wisconsin and three in Minnesota), but with families and careers and life in general, we only see each other a few times a year. We stay in touch via email (our message chains are generally hysterical), but what I love most about our friendship is that we get together and never miss a beat. It's like we hadn't been apart. I love them all so dearly.

Wednesday, September 7, 2011

Blog Challenge Day 7: Favorite Vacation

 

Oh man. This one is so easy. My favorite vacation ever was to Italy in March of 2008.

Although it was 15 months after our wedding, this trip was actually our honeymoon. We saved and saved and saved for it, but it was totally worth the wait.

We spent 8 days in Italy, visiting Venice, Cinque Terre and Rome. I can't even begin to describe how magical it was. We did the touristy things, like visiting the Vatican and Colosseum, but we mostly just walked around and took in the culture.

One of my favorite things to do was to get lost in various far-flung Italian neighborhoods. A bit off the beaten path, we'd often stumble upon a great bistro or wine bar. The food was always so fresh and so delicious. The wine was crisp and plentiful. And the scenery was simply awe-inspiring. By far the best trip we've ever taken.

A few photos to help illustrate our experience...

Rome
"Lovers Lane" trail in Cinque Terre
In the Vatican 
Hill top in Vernazza (Cinque Terre)
Fishing boats in Vernazza (Cinque Terre)
Canals of Venice
"Lost City" in Rome

There are other places I want to visit (Madrid, Paris, Costa Rica, Chile, among others), but I can't wait to do Italy again.

Tuesday, September 6, 2011

Blog Challenge Day 6: Favorite Movies

 

Day 6 of the September blog challenge over at Katie's Journey! It's not too late for you to join and link up too!

Today, we're talking movies. But I have to confess, I don't watch many. If I have any spare time, I usually like to read or blog. That being said, I do have a couple of favorites, depending on my mood.

If I want to laugh... Drop Dead Gorgeous

Drop Dead Gorgeous (1999)

It's a dark comedy about small-town beauty queens in Minnesota. It stars Kirsten Dunst, Ellen Barken, Kirstie Alley, and Denise Richards, among others. Their over-the-top Minnesotan accents crack me up. And the script is absolutely hysterical.

If I want to cry... Juno

Juno (2007)

I sob at the end of Juno every single time. Literally every time. Even before I had children. It's just such an emotional moment. When Pauly Bleaker crawls in her hospital bed with her I just lose it. So sweet.

This movie is also super funny and some great one liners. All around a good flick.

If I'm sick... Gladiator

Gladiator (2000)

Weird, right? But Gladiator has been my "sick" movie for as long as I can remember. I think it's something about the lighting and cinematography. It's very soft and soothing somehow.

If I'm looking for a guilty pleasure... Twilight

Twilight (2008)

Team Edward, all day. What can I say? There's something about sexy vampires. Don't fight it people, you don't know what you're missing.

And if I ever have time to watch something new...

The Time Traveler's Wife (2010)
The Help (2011)

If I ever get any of this so-called "free time", I'm dying to see the Time Traveler's Wife (now on DVD) and The Help (in theaters). Both are two of my favorite books. The Time Traveler's Wife is next in my Netflix queue, but I have feeling I won't get around to The Help for quite awhile. I've heard it's as good as the book though!